So, not your normal description here. I was recently diagnosed with a Stage 4 cancer. Incurable, but I've still got some time. While I'm still feeling pretty good (at least when the chemo isn't kicking my butt), there are a few things I'd like to check off my bucket list. I'm obviously not looking for anything really long term, and I do need discretion as I am married. Kudos to you if you're still reading. I'm a 40-something Sci-fi geek, fairly intelligent (i.e. I have a bottomless trove of worthless knowledge), educated but now on disability. I'm pretty Zen about my situation, and approach the whole thing with dark/gallows humor (which might be a little offputting to some...). I'm very open-minded, and pretty unshockable and once I'm comfortable, I'll talk about just about any topic. I have lots of free time to fantasize about things I never got around to, or that my wife would never be into. If any of this piques your interest, let me know and we can talk specifics..

My Ideal Person Single or couple, male or female, you have to be honest about what you're looking for and respectful of other's boundaries. Age, race, and body type are less important than intelligence, attitude, and humor. I do have some preferences (mostly around my age or a little younger, at least relatively HWP, and any ethnicity), but none of of is written in stone. Being here is all about the experiences, so let's share some.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Dave Matthews, Grateful Dead,
Mumford and Son, Metallica, BB King, Tool.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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